Counselling support for perinatal coaching
Trying for a baby can become one of the most emotionally exhausting times in a person’s life.
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A safe space to process
We can gently explore the emotional challenges that emerge relating to fertility difficulties including:
Relationship difficulties, and difficulties in how you and your partner are coping
Anxiety surrounding fertility treatment, appointments, and outcomes
The emotional rollercoaster of hope, disappointment, and uncertainty
Feelings of grief, loss, or loneliness
Exploring how fertility struggles may impact your sense of self, identity, or relationships
Difficult emotions around pregnancy announcements or social situations
Supporting you in making decisions that feel right for you
Trying for a baby can become one of the most emotionally exhausting times in a person’s life. If you are attempting natural conception, going through IVF or fertility investigation, the emotional impact can feel overwhelming. What may have begun as an exciting time, may later change to become filled with uncertainty or with repeated disappointment, worry, grief that is difficult to share with others.
You may be experiencing a cycle of hope and loss, a disconnection from your body or struggling to deal with the uncertainty of what happens next. Relationships can feel strained and emotions difficult to manage when circumstances appear out of your control.
Counselling can support you by offering a safe space for feelings to be shared openly.
Compassionate support
Using an integrative counselling approach, I offer a calm, supportive space to help you process your experience, make sense of difficult emotions, and feel more grounded during an uncertain time. This may include:
- Making space for grief, disappointment, and emotions that can feel hard to process
- Finding ways to manage anxiety and cope with uncertainty
- Exploring how fertility struggles may impact your sense of self, identity, or relationships
- Rebuilding trust in your body and confidence in your own resilience
- Supporting you in making decisions that feel right for you
Related support: you may also find it helpful to read about finding yourself again after becoming a parent, hypnobirthing sessions for couples, or explore all the ways I can help with everything I offer after birth. When you feel ready, you can arrange your first session or start with a free introduction call.
Have a space to be heard and supported throughout every part of your journey
Whether you are at the beginning of your fertility journey, in the midst of treatment, or processing what this experience has meant for you, you do not have to navigate it alone.
Perinatal Coaching - FAQs
How can counselling help when trying to conceive?
Trying for a baby can take over your thoughts, emotions, and daily life. Counselling offers space to pause, process what you are going through, enabling you to feel more supported in a time of uncertainty. It can support the emotional highs and lows, giving you a safe space to talk, manage anxiety and feel less alone.
What can I talk about in fertility counselling?
Anything that feels important to you - relationships, treatment decisions, grief, anxiety, or simply how you are coping day to day.
Can counselling help after failed treatment, loss, or difficult news?
Yes. Counselling offers a supportive space to process grief, loss and difficult news at your own pace.
Can fertility counselling support my relationship too?
Yes. Fertility struggles can put a strain on relationships, and counselling can help you both feel heard and supported.
What if I’m experiencing a mixture of different feelings or difficulties?
That is completely normal. We can explore whatever comes up together, without needing to label it first.
I don’t feel like myself during pregnancy or after having a baby, can counselling help even if I don’t know why?
Yes. You do not need to know why you feel different. Counselling can help you gently explore what is going on.
Other ways I can support you
Trying For A Baby (IVF)
Trying for a baby can result in relationship strains, anxiety, grief and low moods. Therapy can provide emotional support, coping mechanisms, and a safe space to navigate challenges.
Hypnobirthing
Hypnobirthing builds confidence and reduces fear using relaxation, breathing and a positive mindset techniques. Helping you to feel fully prepared and calm. Providing practical tools for your labour.
Fear of Childbirth
Suitable for first time parents and those holding anxiety from a previous birth. Use therapy to process and release fears. Build confidence for a calmer birth.
Antenatal Anxiety
Pregnancy anxiety can be overwhelming and experience self-doubt. Therapy can ease anxious thoughts, release fears, build self-trust and provide greater confidence within your pregnancy.
Birth Trauma
Therapy for birth trauma can help you process the birth, reduce distressing memories, release fear and rebuild confidence, emotional balance, and connection with your baby.
Identity Loss In The Perinatal Period
Counselling can support you to process changes in your identity. Including your role as a parent, relationship differences enable you to reconnect with yourself to rebuild your identity.
Postnatal Depression
Counselling offers a safe space to process the feelings associated with depression, including low mood, exhaustion. To ease guilt, rebuild confidence, and support emotional recovery.
Postnatal Anxiety
If you are experiencing worry, racing thoughts or fear of something going wrong. Counselling can calm anxious thoughts, reduce overwhelm and build coping strategies.